Keynotes · Workshops · Trainings

How are we connected?

For more than 20 years, Ruby Mathen has answered that question on the front lines of New York's housing and mental-health crisis — and turned what she's seen into stories that move audiences to act.

Licensed social worker · therapist · supportive-housing program director · professional speaker.

Ruby Mathen, licensed social worker and professional speaker Based in Brooklyn, NYAvailable nationwide & virtually
20+ years in NYC housing & mental health Program Director, ICL (BTAP III) Licensed therapist (LMSW) English · Malayalam · some Hindi
Why Ruby

She doesn't talk about the work from a distance. She's still in it.

Ruby is that rare voice who leads a supportive-housing program, sits with clients as a therapist, and tells the kind of story a room remembers for years. Her talks weave two decades of frontline experience with research and real, anonymized human moments — so audiences leave changed, and with something they can use Monday morning.

Whether the room is full of case managers, executives, students, or community members, she does one thing better than almost anyone: she makes people see each other.

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Housing and mental health are not two problems. They are one problem wearing two coats. Ruby Mathen, LMSW
Signature Talks

Six talks. One throughline: the people we're tempted to look past.

Each is available as a keynote, workshop, half- or full-day training, panel, or webinar — and tailored to your audience.

Flagship 01

Beyond Four Walls: Housing & Healing

You can't treat mental health without addressing housing — and you can't keep housing while a mental-health crisis goes unanswered. The intersection Ruby has worked in for 20+ years.

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Flagship 02

How Are We Connected?

A moving, story-driven keynote on finding humanity beyond diagnosis, labels, and a person's worst moment. Equal parts vulnerable and galvanizing.

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The Heart Behind the Work

Burnout and compassion-fatigue prevention for the people who carry everyone else — honest, practical, and human.

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Unspoken: The Desi Experience

South Asian mental health, stigma, identity, and the cost of living between two worlds — a conversation many communities have never been invited into.

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What organizers get

Why teams and conferences book Ruby

01

Frontline, not theoretical

She leads a program and treats clients today. Every example is real, current, and battle-tested — never recycled from a textbook.

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Stories that land

Ruby opens a room with a single moment and doesn't let go. Audiences feel it — and then they act on it.

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Tools, not just inspiration

Attendees leave with frameworks and concrete steps they can put to work immediately, whatever their role.

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Connects with any audience

From case managers to executives to community groups, she meets people where they are — and brings them somewhere new.

Ruby Mathen speaking on stage at a professional event
A taste of the storytelling

“I'll never forget the Tuesday morning I couldn't get out of my car.”

It was year twelve. Coffee in hand, files in my bag — and my hand just… stopped. That morning is how Ruby opens a room full of helpers, and gives them permission to finally name the thing they've been carrying alone. By the end, nobody in the room feels alone in it anymore.

— the opening of “The Heart Behind the Work”

Ways to work with Ruby

Beyond the keynote

For organizations and the people inside them who do the hard, human work.

Speaking Engagements

Conferences · Universities · Annual meetings

Keynotes and breakout sessions that open hearts and sharpen minds — for events that want to be remembered.

Group Training & Workshops

Teams · Agencies · Healthcare & housing

Trauma-informed care, burnout prevention, cultural competency, and empathetic leadership — built for your team's reality.

1:1 Consulting & Mentoring

Social workers · Supervisors · Leaders

Mentoring, supervision support, and program consulting for the helpers and leaders building healthier systems.

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Coming Soon

The book behind the talks

Ruby is writing Beyond Four Walls — a frontline guide to the crisis where housing and mental health collide, written for the people living it and the policymakers who can end it.

Want to know when it's out, or invite Ruby to speak about it?

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Let's talk

Bring Ruby to your stage, your team, or your classroom.

Keynotes, workshops, and trainings — in New York, nationwide, or virtually. Non-profit rates available.

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